Strengths and Weaknesses

There is something so empowering about admitting our shortcomings or the parts of ourselves that have room for improvement. I am talking about the wonderfully unique imperfections that make us human. Depending on the person, it can be difficult to take a good hard look at past mistakes and no-so-appealing characteristics, but what if we changed the narrative? What if we stopped deflecting compliments? What if we met our imperfections with compassion as opposed to shame?

The beauty is in the reality that we have different strengths that tend to make up for each others weaknesses. This truth allows for a world full of breathtaking art, eloquent speech, sharp minds, and hardworking hands. Rather than dwelling on our deficiencies, perhaps we should view them as opportunities to highlight another's gift.

Think about why you love and cherish the people in your life. Speaking for myself, I am drawn to humor, loyalty, kindness, confidence, and generosity - none of which require perfection. In fact, what I love the most about my most genuine relationships is the fact that we celebrate each other and learn from our missteps.

In an effort not to sound that a 20-something know-it-all who has not even experienced half of life's hardships, I will be the first to admit that I almost always overthink my actions, regret my words, and dwell on the parts of myself that do not align with my understanding of "perfection." With that said, I am hoping to put this entry into practice and that you do as well.

No more apologizing for being human. Flaws make life way more funky.